Greetings families,
Thoughts on Goodbyes
I know we have several friends that are having a difficult time saying goodbye at drop off. Some were fine and all of a sudden it’s an issue while others have never been a fan of the whole “ you leaving” for any reason ever. Here are some suggestions on how to move through this tough transition as smoothly as possible. First understand that the anticipation of the goodbye is usually far worse than the actual departure. They know what you are doing and the order that you do it in when you leave. Trying to engage them in something in the room is seldom effective. No activity in the room is as enticing as you NOT going. We want to get them through the sadness and onto the fun as quickly as possible. If they need a “hand off” Miss Bailey and I are happy to provide a lap and a cuddle. Some friends want nothing to do with us and they are downright ticked off at being left so they prefer the book area. We have colorful lights and cozy pillows and they can just feel their feelings without an audience. When they are ready they let us know. Please don’t leave and come back or play “one last hug” as this causes the anxiety to go up and is emotionally confusing. Let us know when you’re ready to go, hand your child to us rather than having us pull them off of you. The message with that is you trust this person so much you are giving your child to them, instead of here comes someone to pry you away from mommy. I’ve noticed it makes a difference.
Also, everything I said last week about all the steps in putting away their stuff themselves goes out the window when the child is in distress. Just set their backpack on the floor inside the door, tell them you love them and will see them soon. You are always welcome to call Chanie to see how long until they stopped crying. I’m here to tell you that it is WAY harder on you than them and that it will get better!
Wow, that was way too long! Until next week and I promise I will share some of the amazing activities your child has been doing five minutes after you leave them crying.
We have delved into Rosh Hashanah. All our friends are really enjoying all the fun we are having. Here are some of the things we are doing:
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Singing Rosh Hashonah songs.
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We talked about how honey is sweet. We will be having a tasting of apples and honey so the children can have a 4D experience of this special holiday.
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We pretend to be bumblebees with our bumblebee headbands. We go from flower to flower and use our “straws” to suck up the nectar. We bring it back to our beehives and throw up the nectar to make the honey.
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We have been using fake apples to sort the colors using tongs. We are using a mystery bag to show the children Rosh Hashanah items.
- We say thank you to the bumblebee for making us honey. We use bumblebee finger puppets to sing Rosh Hashanah and Bumble bee songs.
Some of our Rosh Hashanah Songs:
Devorah song: TTO: I’m a little teapot
I am a little Devorah see me fly
Straight from my flour to my hive
I can make you honey oh so sweet
For Rosh Hashanah what a treat!
Dip the Apple in the honey TTO: oh my darling Clementine
Dip the apple in the honey
Make a break loud and clear
L’shanah tova u’metukah
Have a happy Sweet new year!
Thank you to Morah Raizel who did a fabulous Shabbat party! Singing shabbat songs and using her puppets!
Shabbat shalom!
See you all next week! Morah Mimi